I have had a few people ask for a copy of the speech I gave to our graduating Year 6 students. I have copied it below.
Good morning
everyone, I would like to take just a couple of minutes to talk to our
graduating Year 6 students about the topic of success.
The truth is
that we all want to be successful. We want our lives to be satisfying, to be
positive and to be rewarding. We want to have an impact in the world that makes
a difference and we want others to recognise what we do.
There are
all kinds of success....
·
There
is academic success, getting high grades, achieving a scholarship or award, dux
of the school. University recognition, Masters degrees and doctorates.
·
Financial
success, making lots of money, buying a big house, driving a fancy car, traveling the world.
·
Physical
success, becoming the next supermodel, Mr Universe or Sporting success,
becoming an Olympic champion, winning an AFL premiership, playing in the NBA.
·
Work
success, winning the next big account, getting a promotion.
All these
things are good things but are they really a mark of a successful life?
There are
plenty of academics with degrees upon degrees who are lonely and misunderstood.
There are multitudes of rich people living very sad lives, surrounded by drug
addiction, alcohol addiction, people who love them for their money, their fame and fortune. There are
numerous beautiful people who have started to age and their beauty no longer
seems to be so attractive anymore. There are countless ex-sporting stars who are
living a sad, obscure life, addicted to drugs or pining for the glory of their
previous life.
Academic
success, financial success, physical success, success in your work are all good
things to strive towards but they don’t necessarily mean that your life is ultimately
a success. Underneath all these things, the thing that glues all these
temporary successes together, the thing that weaves together what we would
consider to be a successful life is relationships. Strong, deep, quality
relationships.
The way that
you interact with others at school, in your work, when you play, when you
participate in sport, when you participate in most activities, the social
skills that you develop and build will have the greatest impact and bring the
greatest satisfaction in your life. More than money, beauty, fame or any
temporary successes. People who build trusting and close relationships with
colleagues, friends and best friends are those that can enjoy all the other
successes of life more fully and with greater joy and fulfillment. When they
need help they have others to support them, when they experience success they
have others to enjoy the experience of life with them.
To build
successful relationships you need to be able to understand and manage your own
emotions and feelings. You need to be able to make strong decisions and work to
resolve problems so that everyone benefits. You need to develop integrity,
honesty, kindness, the desire to do what is right because it is the right thing
to do.
All these
things are the basis of what we have been teaching you here at Madeley. We
believe that your social and emotional development is the key ingredient to
making you successful in life. At the core of this is the golden rule “Treat
others as you would like them to treat you.” If you adopt this rule and
actively seek to live it out on a daily basis you will develop the kind of
relationships that will enable you to live a successful life.
On behalf of
the staff and students at Madeley I wish you all the very best for a safe and
happy holiday and for your start to high school next year.